FEELINGS
You can be very Hungry and Angry, but when a Beautiful Lady smiles and says "Hi" to you, immediately You become Happy and satisfied all of a Sudden. Even the same way, when you see someone else counting very huge sums of Money, then you feel Better, and start acting as if nothing happend...!!!
These are feelings, and they can be controlled. Some call it basic instincts, while others call it Natural Feelings.
Feelings have different varieties, Physical, Spiritual, Natural, Mechanical, or even Automatic..hehehe..lol..
Let's say, emm, you love Soccer, thus Football, but i hate Soccer, do you know why..???...because i don't understand why 22 Men, sorrounded by over a thousand people, are watching this small Ball bounce up-and-down, just to make them happy, after entering a net.
I love Car Race, but You also hate that, because why should we Compete against some Machine that is already fast, infact what do we archive, even that sport is dangerous....YES..we're all right, we've got opinions against eachother's feelings..
Sometimes, you even ask yourself, "WHY DOES THIS LADY LOVE ME SOO MUCH?", "AND WHAT'S SOO SPECIAL ABOUT ME", humm, well maybe you don't know, that's something Unique found in you, that she can't get anywhere else. The same applies to You, of-course there are beautiful Women everywhere, yes, but what's soo special about this One...why don't you go outside, and choose amongs the thousands you see everywhere..
People watch movies and say "Wow, that film was very nice", but watch the same movie, and you won't even like to finish it. Others goo to parties and complain "the Dj is this and that, the food was this and that, even the B'Day Girl wasn't looks that Good today at all", but go to that Party, and you will love to spend your whole day at the soo called boring party.
Sometimes you find yourself smilling for nothing, then a little snitch, get's you all Sick and Bored. Even at times you try to make yourself happy, but still. Can you remember days when you feel soo tired and sleepy, but wakeup very late at nights, still asking yourself "why can't i sleep, what's wrong with me"...
or at times when you care soo much about someone that, you miss his voice, and his face, you really want to be around him, but he's busy somewhere having fun with his friends..???..well, it's normal, sometimes things happen for a purpose, but feelings, are not automatic, to me, i believe they are things that can be controlled.
Yes, because when you feel Sad, i guess you won't go to a Funeral Grounds, you will by all means goto a Club House, and be with Friends who make you Happy. The same way, if a Lady misses someone soo much, then it's her sweet boyfriend, she just wanna be close to Him, even if he's sick or busy working, she just wanna be around him. Imagine when you've got sexual feelings, and find it difficult to overcome, especially in this country, where you only get Prostitutes at nights, and even you feel shy to approach them, huh, well, for me, what i know is, you gotta just move from your current location, walk around, or get some excise that will keep you busy, that's a sure way, or even simple, Pray and Read the Bible.
Feelings are different, sometimes, you feel better the moment you see someone special. Sometimes you feel sad when you listen to some Music, even sometimes a Radio program can keep you happy all day long.
Even the kind of Music you listen you, and the mode at which you node your head or feel like dancing, alone can revive you in soo many ways.
Me for instance, when i'm very sick, i don't need medicine to cure me quickly, although it's good, i need Care, Love and Support, that's all i need...and truelly these three things, or even Love alone, can cure almost every disease, the way you show care to someone when that person is feeling bad, can be of great help...
Recently, i was sick, and needed someone, espercially my Girlfriend to even talk to me, wow, to my surprise, she was busy entertaining other friends....i was soo angry, but took it cool, because some friends, i never expected Care and Support from, were the ones who called me, and even sent Text messages to my phone, checking on my Daily, to see if i was feeling better...Soo, now you know, feelings can be controlled, but sometimes, the people you feel better around, might disappoint you, when you need them, that's why it's very advisable to be Nice with everyone, because you might not know when you will need them..!!!
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