LAWS OF ATTRACTION FOR MEN

Approaching a Lady shouldn’t  be soo hard, especially, when you’re the Simple Type…

You don’t need to be soo Fresh, soo Rich, and Soo Fly, innit, or even have some Different  Lannguage Style…

And keeping a Female friend is a very good thing, even if you have a GIrlFriend, but mostly it’s hard for some Guys…hum, well,

Soo take these few steps, and try them for yourself, I’ve tried it, and wow, it works like Magic…also visit, www.askmen.com for more insight issues

1. Be realistic. Yeah and I mean be YOU…don’t try to be someone you’re not, Ladies Hate it when Guys talk too much about some different personality, they’re not, and when you make them feel you’re a Boss…while you don’t even own a single bank account…
2. Try to be funny…uhh huh, no-matter-what, every Lady loves to listen to nice words, interesting words, and laugh, when you make them laugh, they tend to miss you a lot, when you’re not around, because you don’t only take away their sadness, you brighten the darkest sides in their lives.
3. Never ask for their cell-phone-numbers (in a rush)…don’t worry too much about asking for numbers, yes, they know you need to contact them, soo to easily get their phone numbers, it’s simple, talk about something beneficial, let her know you’re someone she might need oneday for something very important.
4. Get-A-Job. Wow, this is huge, but simple, even if you’re a student, let her know you’ve got other stuff doing, that fetch you money, When a Lady know she’s with someone who is responsible and is very industrious, she can rely on you, she won’t hide from you, she then trust you, and feel  safe.
5. Be-Like-A-Friend-or-Brother….this seem abit awkward, but it’s true, when-ever you approach a Lady for the first time, never let her think you’re just in for Relationship. No, make her believe you’re Engaged, already with a GirlFriend (even if you’re single), and try to be more like a Brother, Friendly, and adorable, this means, you gotta forget about Dating her, and behave to her like she’s your classmate, or next-door-neighbor….***YOU WILL BE SHOCKED WHAT THIS POINT ALONE HAS DONE TO LOTS OF GUYS…..YOU ENDUP DOING THINGS YOU NEVER THOUGHT YOU COULD DO WITH HER, ONLY BECAUSE YOU GUYS ARE FRIENDS***..
6. Try to Help Her:- this doesn’t necessarily mean, Paying for her dues, nooo, it means listening to her problems, finding ways and means to solve them, even if you’re the type who don’t give a damn, you can ask a friend about solutions, yes,, when a Lady believes in you, she believes in what-ever-you tell her to do. She might endup telling you her secrets if you can help solve her problems. She might even offer you a ONE NIGHT STAND (hehehehe), if you impress her the most.
7. Tease her; oohh yes, they love it, not all ladies might need this, but at least teasing them breaks the boundary between seriousness and *JUST BEING FRIENDS* …and when she tease you back, accept it, don’t be rude, Ladies are too good in teasing, soo try as much as possible not to over-react, they feel better and more relaxed when you don’t show them your *BOILING-POINT*
8. Talk about the Future, and your Dreams, NOT ABOUT SEX & OTHER PEOPLE…mostly we make mistakes, and think ladies of today are naughty, but seriously, every Lady is the same when it comes to some basic things, talking to a Lady about your Dreams, Achievements, and Goals, makes her think she’s with the Right Partner, even if you’re not her boyfriend, she would love to keep you as her friend forever, no-matter what happens…don’t waste time talking about other people, this makes  her rather believe in those people and not in you, and also, don’t flex tooo much, that you know this person, you met this person, or you were once friends with that famous personality, it makes them think you don’t value her.
9. Let them know how beautiful they are….oohh yea, who says a Lady can’t gloooo, huh, just wait till it’s her friend’s engagement party or something like her sister’s wedding,  that’s when you will see her actual beauty…soo tell her, everyday, that she’s beautiful, even tease her, that you wish she was your wifey or girlfriend, that alone, makes them feel proud of who they are, and trust in you soo much…
10. NEVER-EVER-ASK-FOR-SEX: Don’t try to ask them for Sex, Hugs, Kisses or anything that comes in between friendship and relationships…remember Friendship is Far different from Relationships, in Friendships, there’s nothing like Jealousy, or Long-term arguments, or long-misunderstanding, just wait for the right moment, if something leads to kissing, fine, or some chemistry, cool, always remember, it will be very hard for them to ask, yea, they make signs, but this will also be soo difficult for you to understand, just go for it, if you feel like kissing them, fine, just do it, if you wanna hug them, go head, don’t wait for any signal, or advice from anyone…
11. DON’T GOSSIP TO YOUR MALE FRIENDS ABOUT HER:- sharing some information about your female friend to your male friends, is really bad, and very dangerous, if she finds-out she will never trust you again, soo whatever you do, try as-much-as-possible not to advertise it to anyone else, u can write in down in your dairy or somewhere, maybe that can avoid you from gossiping about it.
12. COMMUNICATE AND SHARE YOUR PERSONALITY: Ladies love it when you call, to checkup on them, call to just say “Hi” or even stay on phone longer with them, especially, when they are sick, or feeling bored, it’s a good sign of someone who cares soo much about them, I know it’s hard for young people who are students, because of mobile phone credits, but seriously, if you can do this only once, it makes her feel soo good. Tell her more about yourself, what you like, what you hate, and what you love doing, make sure not to disclose something bad about your ex-girl, this makes her feel someway, she might be scared too….

ORIGINALITY

ORIGINALITY

written for Underground Musicians in Ghana, by Michael T. Maglo, after watching Mensah, and Kubolor perform on B.B.C.

There is a verb that will take any Ghanaian Artist everywhere in this World, from a Low Place to the High Stages, if only he/she will abide by it's simple Principles...this simple verb is called "ORIGINALITY" ....

Soo, the big question is, What does Originality really mean...

let's break the word down into two different parts "Origin" and "Ability"

okey, now in my own perspective what i mean to say, is the Ability to promot your Original Character....wow...that sounds odd...

anyway, let's keep reading, maybe, few points can make you understand this term called ORIGINALITY.

To me, Originality is the Natural Style, and Colour, and Rythm you portray in your Music, even the way you Dance, twist and Turn, is also part of Originality.

it's the Local You, where you're from and what your forefathers, and greatgrand parents really were...the way they sang, meaning, the tonation, and the how the sounded, even the kind of strings they used, the instruments, and the

YOU HAVE NO EXCUSE, WHAT-SO-EVER TO FAIL IN LIFE

YOU HAVE NO EXCUSE, WHAT-SO-EVER TO FAIL IN LIFE

He had only 25-30mins on a Local TV Station, for his Program, 4Syte Tv, but he made it Big, with an Event called the 4Syte Music Video Awards.....

what about you....you have all the time in this World, what have you archived already, what are your achievements

He was an Orphan from Russia, but today, he Bought Chelsea Football Club...

what about you, living with both Parents, and yet still complaining,

He had never entered High School, or even went to J.S.S., he left school in Class 5, but this same Man, has built a Whole Campus, J.H.S. SHS, including Computer Lab, PlayGround, Soccer Field and Hostel Facilities,...what about you, all the money you make, and can't even build a Single Room for Remedial Students.

He lived without Electricity for almost 20years, had no Electronic Gadget in his room, and not even a Mobile Phone, but he taught and repaired Computers...hummm, as for you, everything from iPhone, to DsTv, but you have never written a Book or a single Page, or created an Internet blog....

He could not see, write, or even try to spell, and had no special education from anyone, but today, his Music is an Inspiration to the Whole Wide World....what about you, my Brother, and Sister, all the Big English you speak, yet still not even an Advice to the Young...

She was a Woman born with lots of Male Friends around Her, but she ended up being the Best Female Warrior, the World has ever known...

While his Friends were in the ClassRoom, he was spending time, at he Library, studying more about Film Production, he lived half of his young life, in the Cinema, worked as a Cleaner there, and sometimes, a Ticket Collector, see him now, he's one of the Greatest Film Producers in West Africa, and Highly Respected around the World.

This Woman also, went through alot, spent money, on high hotel bills, just to raise a  Company in a Rented Hotel Apartment. She and her Friend, split-up dew to some Financial Challenges, but she never gave-up....upon all failures, she cameout with a Big Production, ever to hit the Scenes of the Ghanian Movie Industry, now she has support from a Telecom Company...making her Production House the First ever, Ghanian Film Studio to receive support from a Mobile-Phone Giant...hummm, soo what makes you think You can never shoot- a common short film, with your mobile phone..???

He never went to a Film School, never learnt about any Special Effect from no-where, he didn't go to Computer School, but wow, today, he developed Softwares like Optical Flares, Video-Copilot Plugins, and other Wild Stuff, used by Professionals in Hollywood and other Film Production Giants....

Even Jesus, was born to a Carpenter, and a Mother, who was jobless, at that time, but see him, this same Man, grew up to become a Teacher and a Doctor, and an Inspirational  Speaker...same applies to Rev. Mensah Otabil, he didn't even finish High School, slept in the Church, lived as a Street Child, but today, he has built a University.

Do you know the Story of this Rich Kid, who's Parent sent him to the United Kingdom, London to Study, but came-back to Ghana, to work as a Mason, and Married a Lawyer, huh, now he is the Founder and President of LIGHTHOUSE CHAPEL INTERNATIONAL...please visit their Headquarters, called the Qodesh in North Kaneshie, behind the Old Melcom Plaza, and you will be shocked...some people call it ...THE CITY OF GOD...hummm, what about you, spending time and wasting time, it's high time you check your purpose on Earth....

it took Emmanuel 6yrs to Win, Stars of the Future Music Talent Show on Tv....wow...Six Good Years, 4 of those years, he was bounced by the judges at the Audition Grounds...but he never gaveup, and tried, over and over again....huh, soo do you wanna giveup on something, just because your friends can't help you, and because you're scared it will never worked, huh....

When these Two Musicians came out with a Classic Song "PRESSURE", on the Ghanian airwaves, we thought it will never last, but look at them today.....i just heard the President of Liberia called them for a Show...wow...do you know the same for Ofori Amponsah, he went to Liberia, and a Whole City was running just to meet him, chaaaaaley, he was like a god, over there....

Sometimes you ask yourself, what does it take for a Musician to make it Big, well, ask me again, because Justin Bieber, was discovered from Youtube, after he did a version of someone's track...that same Bieber, was the Youngest Musician to win the BEST ARTIST at the AMERICAN MUSIC AWARDS FESTIVAL, in 2010..

Do you know where iWan came from, the house he lived in, humm, you will be shocked, but this Guy, was found on the Big Stages in London, performing massively.....what about 5Five, after the problem they had with their Manager, things went down, and people thought it was the end for that group, but a little Single, just one single, "MUGYEBAYA - MOVEBACK", flew them off to London, for a Club Tour...same applies to the Gospel Musician, who wrote this song, "..JEHOVAH, MOST HIGH GOD.."..remember it was bargained for, at the 2008 Political Rally, and used by both competing Parties....wow...what about Sarkodie, and his U.S. Tour, did we ever believe he could Tour the Whole United States of America, after singing "BORGA, BORGA, 3na 3ye di3n..."...huh...making Him, the First & Best Ghanian Artist to ever Tour the United States....wow...say it again, Wow...

check the internet for the Story of Microsoft, Google, Apple CEO, and even our own Youngest Billionaire alive, Facebook CEO, Mark Zuckerberg...how they made it, is very amazing,

So, you bear with me, You have no excuse, what-so ever to Fail in Life....

BullDog of BullHaus Entertainment, told me something, and from that time, i never discouraged myself, he said "...it's only in Africa, that a Young Person, has an Excuse to Fail...

most at times, we think, Our Colour is BLACK (BUT OBAMA IS THE PRESIDENT OF AMERICA), our Country is not recognized (BUT THE BLACKSTARS MADE IT POPULAR) , our Language can't reach far (BUT INDIAN FILMS ARE WILDLY ENJOYED), our Religion has lots of this and that, (BUT WHO SAYS RELIGIOUS RULES ARE WRONG), and that, and that, and that

we complain too much, The Pay is Low, the Sun is Hot, the Weather is too Dusty, the Politicians are Liars, the Music can't reach MTV or Channel O....wow...we don't even believe in our Own-Stuff...

PLEASE LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING...

NEVER, EVER GIVE-UP, IF SOME PEOPLE HAVE MADE IT WITH LITTLE TIME, AND OTHERS WITH BIGGER PROBLEMS, THEN YOU HAVE A MAJOR PROBLEM, AND THAT IS, "YOU DON'T BELIEVE IN WHO YOU ARE"...

WHAT-EVER IDEA YOU HAVE, SOMEONE IS ALSO THINKING THE SAME...

JUST DO WHAT YOU CAN DO, AND THE RIGHT PERSON WILL COME YOUR WAY HELPING YOU ACCOMPLISH THE REST...

remember ..."WITH GOD, ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE"...Mark 10:27

Thank you...i'm BLA Mike..you can also call me ..MICHAEL T. MAGLO..(MTM)

BE CAREFUL

BE CAREFUL

Be careful,

Infact be very, very careful

The way you lifestyle, becareful with it.

The people you cheat along the way, be very careful,

The way you worship God, becareful,

Because when you become very sick and ill, you will remember him

The boyfriend you’re cheating on, becareful with that

The Girlfriend you love beating all the time, be very careful

Because when he/she leaves the relationship, you might regret treating them bad

The Job you don’t cherish, and behave anyhow to it,

Be very careful,

Because when you loose it, you might not get any better one,

The people you disrespect becareful,

Because some of them might be fedup and retaliate oneday,

The type of Music you listen to, be very careful,

Because the words might mislead you

The way and manner you disrespect your Parent.

Because you will also be a Mother or Father oneday,

And remember those times when you also did the same thing,

How you go to Church or the Mosque

Because when you travel into a land, where you can’t worship God freely, you will miss those days.

Be careful with the kind of friends you have,

Not all of them will help you oneday,

And not all of them will always be there for you,

Be careful with the way you talk to others,

Humm, you might lose your respect oneday,

Even you might endup messing someone’s life with your mouth.

Becareful how you act towards certain situations,

Yes, because they might bring you more problems,

Or put you in a very bad situation.

Becareful what you write on your facebook status,

Because most people might take that to be your personal lifestyle,

Becareful how you pray to God,

Because you might not only be over-reacting, but abusing your religious belives.

And becareful who you help, and how you help others,

Because not everyone needs a helper, and not everyone needs a good act.

Becareful what news you report,

Yes, yes, not all news is good news,

Also, not all news can be reported directly to the owner.

Becareful how you drink, and drive,

It might take away your precious life one day,

Becareful what you eat,

You might find yourself on the hospital bed oneday,

Becareful who you ask for help and advice,

Because not everyone is a good advicer,

Becareful what Church you attend,

Because not all Churches bring progress to your life,

Becareful with you listen to,

Not all words sounds great to the ear, and feels good to absorb.

Becareful what relationship you find yourself in,

Humm, yes ooohh, not all Wives and Husband can change your life positively,

Some come with a Curse, others Great Blessings, and some, humm, you can’t even tell,

Becareful how you treat your siblings,

They will takecare of your Children oneday.

Becareful how you treat your Juniors on Campus,

They will meet you somewhere oneday,

Becareful, what goes around comes around,

But not in every situation,

Sometimes it might not happen to you,

But to your Children, or Great GrandChildren,

Or someone you dearly love.

Becareful, be very, very, careful,

Life is short, and not all that Glitters in Gold,

Soo be contented with what you have,

Others wish they were like you,

Even sometimes the Rich wish they were Poor,

Because the Pressure they goo through because they’re rich,

Humm, feels like a bigload.

Most people out there, in the hospitals, on the street, or even in the Prisons,

Wish they were like you,

Soo be very careful, how you treat others.

Just live life simple,

Don’t argue too much,

Try to understand, and have patience with every situation,

In that way, you will find happiness, always,

Don’t challenge people too much,

You will endup causing fights, arguments, and grudge,

JUST LIVE A SIMPLE LIFE,

AND GOD WILL HELP YOU GAIN HAPPINESS EVERYWHERE!!!